Matthew@MatthewJLong.com

(805) 254- 4878

P.O. Box 1624 Arroyo Grande, CA 93241-1624

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Divorce Mediation

Avoid the costly, painful, and time-consuming process of a traditional divorce. Meetings conducted online for your convenience. In-person appointments upon request.
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Respectful Resolution

Collaborative Divorce

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Divorce Mediation

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Divorce Coaching

Convenient Mediation Services

Mediation services available online for California divorces. In person appointments serve San Luis Obispo, Santa Barbara counties, including Paso Robles, Santa Maria, Santa Barbara, Pismo Beach, Arroyo Grande, Atascadero, San Luis Obispo and surrounding areas.
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Matthew J Long

Hello, I’m Matthew Long

I  believe couples should be in charge of their own divorce.  With over 30 years of experience in the courtroom, I know when you decide to battle it out in court, you are essentially putting your fate in the hands of a judge.  The experience typically involves a massive amount of unnecesary paperwork, large amounts of time and money, high stress and emotional scarring.  And it is rare for either of the parties to feel good about themselves or the process in the end.

This is why I decided to put down the gloves and focus my law practice exclusively on Divorce Mediation and Collaborative Divorce for my clients in the state of California.

For those living both in and out of California, I also offer Divorce Coaching services.

Practice Areas

Our focus is on respectful communication, whether you are starting or ending your marriage.

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Collaborative Divorce

When you want to avoid going to court but the issues are complex, the personalities combative, there are minor children involved, or both parties are not equally knowledgeable about the financial situation, Collaborative Divorce is an excellent option. This option involves using a team of advisors to help the parties learn to exchange information and negotiate in an open and honest way. My Collaborative Divorce services are available to residents of California. Learn More

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Divorce Mediation

When couples are willing to work cooperatively to end their marriage, Mediation offers just that. With mediation, I serve as the neutral third party, offering legal education, assisting with the important paperwork, writing the Marital Settlement Agreement and submitting it to the court. Mediation is typically the least stressful and most cost-effective way to get divorced with the assistance of an attorney. Our mediation services are available to residents of California. Learn More
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Performance Coaching

Do you have a goal that you’ve been trying to reach but find yourself continually falling short? As a performance coach, I provide clients with a safe, confidential space to develop specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-bound goals. I support you to take the steps necessary to achieve your goals and identify the thoughts, stories and behavior patterns that are standing in your way.   Learn More

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Spouse Uncooperative?

Sometimes couples don’t agree on how to get divorced. If your spouse isn’t receptive to exploring an out-of-court approach to divorce, we may be able to help you influence a change-of-mind.

We can help

Compare the Costs of Your Divorce Options

$30-80K

Typical Cost of Litigation (Per Spouse)

$5 to 7.5K

Typical Cost of Mediation (Shared Cost)

$15-20K

Typical Cost of Collaborative (Per Spouse)

Be Informed

Know the 4 Ways to Get Divorced Before Taking the Next Step:

Do you know that you have options when it come to how you get divorced. Litigation, the best known approach to divorce, is actually only one of 4 options. It is in your best interest to understand all 4 options before taking a first step towards divorce. While divorce is never easy, you may find that you are a good candidate for an approach that is less costly and will help you move forward to the next stage of your life more quickly.

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From Our Clients

We are dedicated to helping you resolve your legal issue efficiently, honestly and professionally.

“I would recommend Matthew Long to anyone who is looking for a lawyer who is efficient, honest and of high integrity. He understood what I was going through and gave support in an empowering way. Matthew Long really wants people to have their best life going forward and does what he can to make that happen.“

Mary S.

Client
“I wholeheartedly recommend Matthew Long when choosing a divorce lawyer or mediator. In a very stressful time, Matthew provides a solid path with options and can explain all the nuances. He is smart, fair, and instills confidence in the whole process.”

John F.

Client

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  • Peaceful & Collaborative

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